Who is your Mother?
- #Laypalik!
- Mar 10, 2017
- 2 min read
Not sure if anyone can ever define "Mother" as its a beautiful creation of All Mighty. Nothing can come close to a mother's sacrifice and her love for her children. But we can have our own ideas too when looking into our own personal lives to define mother and motherhood.
When I think of a mother , I think of someone who was there when I was sick, someone who was there when I was tired, someone who was there when I was happy, someone who was there when I was down to cheer me up. Someone who became a child with me played with me. Someone who loved my children more than me. Someone who was there every time I needed support.
By giving birth does it fulfill that role completely or not? That is the question! Its not easy thing to carry a child for nine months and then bring him or her to this world. I did both gave birth and took care of my children tried to be there when they needed me, tried to bring bread and butter to the table being a single mom. Tried to fulfill their small wishes........Is that a mother or the one who give birth to you, suffer the pain of labour and then comes back in your life after years, confront you that She is the 'Mother?
Who is your Mother then? Why my mother left me? what were her problems? could not she stand up for me? Why do I have to suffer now emotionally when its not even my fault?
Are relations mere titles or more than that? Why we expect people to change their feelings towards certain people just because biologically we do not belong to them?
I baffled with all these questions for a long time and still do.....!
How people can simply not understand that there is another beautiful sensation God Almighty has created and its Love! Can love empowers everything and yes in my case it did! Nothing mattered to me nevertheless I grew older and sensible with experiences in life, I do accept the reality but not able to let go of the love for my adoptive mother for anyone else even my biological mother. My biological mother has all the respect from me but love is a hard trade.
I am a Muslim so I do have fear of God and I cannot abstain from His orders of loving and respecting one's parents, so respecting my mother will always be there but He knows my heart belongs to someone else when it comes to a relation called "Mother".
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